A list that contains ONLY series with clear, informed consent. Even many shoujo-ai contain assault or dubcon between couples who end up together, and I hate it. Hopefully this list is helpful! Keep in mind that these series may include SA/dubcon portrayed negatively or in character lore.
These have ZERO sexual assault (assault, non-con, coercion, harassment) and ZERO dubious consent (ignoring when a character says “stop/wait”, being intoxicated, joking about discomfort) between couples.
Additionally, these are all completed, interesting, and have solid character development. Ongoing series won’t be added, as authors sometimes randomly add it.
Even if less direct and violent than stuff like “BTD”, gray areas or any unclear consent will not be on this list unless I managed to forget something.
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